Tuesday, 5 February 2013

Nothing is as simple as it seems...nor is it as complicated

We have started hitting the hard times...where we might feel lost, or distant to those we were so close to.
Whether it be physically or emotionally...nothing is like it was before...in those days where we would wake up every morning and go to school...meet those we cherished! But now things have changed...

What we had stowed away for so long, kept in the closet...denied the possibility...that someday; it will end. And we were not wrong to do so! Because how can you hope to take pleasure in something if all you think about, is "when it will end?"
And then you find yourselves in a tight spot...where you feel your closest friends...aren't 'close' afterall. Where you might feel lonely after you thought it was impossible because you had such great friends.
Yes I am talking about the good school times, the good parties and nights spent at your friend's house. I am talking about your loved ones whom will be teared from your arms not because they did wrong or you did wrong...but because of circumstance!

The worse thing about this...is that no one is at fault, no one is to blame! So how do you get over it? How do you move on? When there is no easy way to just blame the person and say they were this and that so you feel better! Its not easy to blame circumstance! To pin it all on something that does not react and show you it is hurt, so that ultimately you feel better...the only choice you have is slowly letting go!
And although the void might never be filled throughout your life if it ends so...there is no choice but to just move on...to simply live.

Often we get to choose between the 'easy' and the 'tough' path...what's worse is when you don't get to choose at all, and you can only sit back and watch it crumble in front of your eyes! But is that really the case...?

After all this time spent together...are you just going to watch it slowly break into little pieces? Whatever happened to all the fun and happiness so far?
No, I am not telling you things can be like they were before...but what i'm saying is that things don't have to be as grim as they seem!

You are who you are today because of the people you have shared the journey with so far...and if circumstance dictates that you must take seperate paths, then so be it. Just remember that you wouldn't be able to take the path alone confidently, were it not for them in the first place...

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